Chang dating advice
This is not a guide to make you feel good about yourself, to boost your self-esteem and tell you everything will be alright if you believe in yourself.
It’s about what actually works, and what most men wish for in a girl they desire. And I know a little bit about the woman’s perspective.
I can’t speak for all men, but I’ve been involved in the men’s dating needs industry for almost ten years, and I’ve spoken to hundreds of men about their desires. Unfortunately, most women (besides my female readers) don’t take much time to explore their own psychology and understand their attraction triggers.
Ask a woman what she’s attracted to and she might say, “Kind,” or “Funny,” or “A good/real guy.”In her mind she will picture Ryan Gosling, or a celeb she finds physically attractive. If you would get off your phone and start reading, we could have some amazing, intelligent conversations. Plenty of meatheads in small logging communities all over the world. Many guys like sports and video games and politics and philosophy.
Just writing what they would say to me made me understand why they would say it to me.
“If you want other people to feel the weight of it, you kind of have to make it external.”“We’re sitting in a waiting room feeling like the world is going to end — but that’s not very cinematic.
For people to actually feel that you have to heighten certain things, move them around, take some stuff out.
I usually say, “I only teach men.” And the reason is because if I were to tell them what I, as a man, wanted from them, they might call me an asshole.
This article is by no means a comprehensive guide to dating. It addresses men’s biggest complaints: Why are so many western women so difficult to relate to, and seduce?